Female sexual energy - can you handle it, guys?

Female sexual energy is a very powerful thing. If you have taught or she has learnt the Ovarian Draw or kundalini methods, she will have stored sexual energy in her brain, ready to be discharged.

Brother, do not underestimate the power of this; when released, it can literally suck the life out of you, if you don't know what you are doing.

From your partners viewpoint, a full discharge of this energy, once set in motion, is necessary, because anything short of this will leave her feeling empty and unfulfilled. And that is not a pleasant way to leave a woman.

You will be amazed, even shocked, at the force in which this energy manifests itself, and I advise you to take it nice and slowly. Although you will be tempted, and she will want you to 'take her', resist the temptation. Use your tongue to build your own sexual energy - kissing, sucking, licking. Always be aware of her state and show the tenderness and love that you have for her.

She will build slowly and will come to orgasm, but it does not stop there. You will be able to build on the last orgasm, each cycle taking 10-20 minutes, and at each stage she will get higher and higher.

If it gets too 'hot' for you (both), relax in the Yab-Yum position, where you just embrace. Remember that female sexual energy is cool, as opposed to your own hot energy.

When you feel ready, and she does too, then you can penetrate. Make sure you have been practicing the Big Draw before your sacred love-making, because you will both experience a whole body orgasm.

Enjoy

Dancing Tango

Tango is an amazing dance. Intricate, sesuous, passionate.

It takes something to learn to dance tango. Dancing is like making love. In fact, dancing is making love. It is a wonderful way to build up sexual energy in a woman. The swaying movements, the touch, the look.

A woman aware of her sexuality has the possibility to constantly grow. Like peeling back layers of an onion, there is always more to come. The intensity of her desires will allow her to get to the higher level. If she will open up, and fully experience what her feelings tell her.

As a man, you can give her the framework and the security to do this. By being with her at each new level. Talking her experience through, reassuring her when she feels that there is no logic, that she has lost control and is perhaps afraid that the sesuality can no longer be controlled.

The point is, that she will need a partner who is aware of this and how far she is. She will find that trying to take a sexual partner who is not on her level will be like dancing tango with someone who does not know the steps, or has no rythym. And that would not do at all - an empty, unfulfilled feeling.

Be her dancing partner. Learn the steps, so that you can flow and the dance becomes the basis for reaching something higher. Take the time to understand the processes that your partner is experiencing and attain pleasure from seeing her fly.

In whose interest is it?

I often wonder about drugs; The 'problem' could easily be taken care of; for example, by buying up the opium production in Afghanistan and other places at 'commercial' rates and convert it to morphine, so that people in great pain with terminal illnesses may die a dignified death. But it is in somebody's interest to keep the drug trade going. It is so lucrative, that could it be perhaps all government leaders are corrupted or compromised?

But what about making love? What is the problem? Why is it still heavily engrained in many people that sex is something 'dirty', to be guilty about? We are talking about the most beautiful, sacred act, that people can be engaged in. An act that is peaceful, in harmony with nature and the needs of our souls.

Poeple go around in their lives in the full knowledge that there is something missing in their lives, and they often use materialism as a substitute. This clearly satisfies those who want to sell us products, because by creating this false need, they can watch their profits increase. It instils samsara on us. It leaves us with an empty feeling. We get short term pleasure from 'things', all the while knowing that there is a deeper meaning to it all.

Organised religion has a lot to answer for; yes, there is the consideration of women left to bring up children single-handed, which is far from ideal. In this day and age, with the range of contraceptives available, this should never be a problem. But whole populations are held back from knowledge of contraception, and the result is plain to see; the world is becoming horribly overpopulated.

In advocating making love as a way to enlightenment, I am also saying to all men; take responsibility. You are not the one who becomes pregnant, but you willl be the one to have to pay. So unless you have both consented to wanting a baby, a real love child, make sure that you always wear a condom. It does not detract from the experience at all, and will also help avoid the spreading of diseases. The company Durex make a very good condom, the Featherlite, and it feels almost as if it is not there.

So back to the question; In whose interest is it?

I believe that in ancient times, women were at the centre of society. Their fertility related to the fertility experienced with plants and other animals, and these 'Gaia' women chose the strongest, fittest men to be lovers. Given that there are more men born than women, there was a surplus of weak, but intellectual men. These men sought, through establishing religion, to suppress women. Creating stories of how 'evil' women were, they succeeded and to this day in many religions, women are suppressed and oppressed. So that men can exercise power. Impotent men. Ignorant men.

However, it goes deeper that that. There are such taboos, concerned with marriage, homosexuality, inter-racial relations, inter-religious relationships, age differences, the concept of older people having sexual relations, the notion that women beyond the menopause cannot reach the same levels.

There is the extreme; take the sad case of the Chechnyan President, Ramzan Kadyrov, who thinks that is fine to fire paintball guns at women who do not wear veils. I simply do not understand how women find themselves in these societies. It can only be that they are so suppressed that they do not realise what is being done to them.

I see so many sad people, especially sad women. Men seem to find satisfaction in their domination, their power, but even so I see many very sad men. People who are just existing, wondering why they have been put here on earth. They have absolutely no contact with their souls and are literally shadows. This must be where those who wish to exercise power want them: religions, capitalists, dictators, governments. By creating conditions for samsara, capitalists manage to sell their goods and find workers ready to sell themselves and their labour in the cause of materialism.

I want these people to wake up, but that awakening must come from within. There must be a revolution or the human race will cease to exist within a few generations.

Women: Question the culture and traditions that hold you firmly in your place. Discover your sexuality and use it to reach a higher level of conciousness. Teach your daughters, that sex is sacred - sex is natural and the natural state is to be in ecstacy. It is not to get 'bonked' as many times as you can by as many men as possible. With real love-making, there is nothing to be ashamed of, no punishments to be meted out. No guilt, because it is your body and your mind for you to decide exactly want you want to do with it.

Men: Give up the notion that women are to be hunted and brought to submission like animals. Women are the other half of the human race, but they have have special properties that unfortunately we cannot experience. Well, we can, if we practice yoga. Remember that women are to be respected and that your role in life is to help bring women to eventual enlightenment, which they can do through their unique sensual organs.

Give the woman you are with warm, sincere words. Give her a feeling of security without being patronising. Relax her, and hold her in your arms. Take your time, remembering that women need time. The kiss is so omportant. Gentle to start with, almost brushing her lips with yours. Feel the passion start to grow and watch her eyes. Look for he gently closing her eyes, with the occasional flutter of the eyelids. Dwell on the kiss - it is more important that you would believe.......

So in whose interest is it to suppress the real love in the world? Everybody's, as long as everybody continues to support the notions. Just look around at this world: Violence, sexual exploitation, drugs, war, poverty, over population, hunger, confusion, war, jealousy, resentment, materialism, pollution.

If only men learned to love women and used their energies on this, the world would be a better place to live. If only women learned who they really are and found men they could trust to literally make love, on their terms.

Gently, guys, gently

I am assuming that the men who are reading this know what a clitoris is? Well if you don't, it is a very important part of a woman's physiology. It is a place where there is a large concentration of nerve cells that transmit signals of touch to the brain which in turn stimulates the areas which release certain hormones. (Ladies - bear in mind that this is a man writing and is probably an oversimplification - but we have to take it from the top, right?).

It works in a different way to a penis, but some have described it as a female penis. The shape and size varies greatly (just like the penis) and normally is shielded by a 'hood', like a foreskin. It resembles a 'beak'. Look it up on an anatomical diagram to see where it is.

Now, this is very important and is incredibly sensitive. Think of the area just below the opening of your penis.

So, now I have told you what it is and where it is, go for it, start rubbing it!

-wrong!

Being so sensitive, you don't even have to touch it to excite it. It is one of the last things to touch, because skin, necks, lips, ear lobes, legs, arms, stomach, hips, breasts are all a part of the way to getting your partner to that higher level of conciousness.

Generally, us guys do not have the sensitivity in our fingertips to touch such a delicate object sensitively enough. Bit of a difference there from the throttle of your Harley to a clitoris.

So, the instrument of choice has to be the tongue. If you have done your build-up right, your breath from your nostril may be enough to bring your partner into the zone. But otherwise, the gentlest of contact from the tip of your tongue can do it. Just watch her face, see her nipples firm and engorge. Given time, she will be gone, off to that other place in her mind.

If your partner masturbates, her hand will sometimes go through the motions, in a kind of reflex. Observe her hand. Hole her hand so that her fingers and thumbs are in your palms. She will automatically guide you as to frequency, intensity and pressure. Without even knowing she is doing it. You get all the guidance you need, bro!

The sides of the clitoris are just as sensitive as the side, but be gently. Occasionally lick the labia (libs) or plunge your tongue inside, just for a change of input. If she physically 'comes', or ejaculates, don't worry - it is actually normal. There is nothing nasty or dirty in this fluid, She might be surprised that she has done this, but encourage her to let it out, without holding back.

If you can speak while you are performing, speak soft reassuring words. Tell her she is safe and that she can do exactly what she wants. Tell her that you want to help her on her journey to a different mental place.

A woman can go on for hours like this. Making love this way will build up your own excitement, because you are extracting the sexual energy and feeding yours. You will normally end up with experiencing a great togetherness where your two souls will meet and you will both be one as you come in unison.

The Terrible Misconception

There are some religions and cultures in the world that are scared of female sexuality. The idea in the Judao-Christian world is that Eve discovered her sexuality and that lead to the expulsion from the Garden of Eden. So man has blamed her ever since.

It seems to me that we are in a sad situation, even in the most liberal countries, where women are discouraged from discovering and developing their sexuality. As a man, I have to ask myself why? What is so threatening about a fully-functioning woman? Instead, we have women who in some cases do not function at all. They have little self-worth and apart from having children and waiting on a man, see little point in life.

When a woman does learn the true nature of her sexuality and finds out at the same time that she can reach a higher level of consciousness, she discovers that there is more to life than she ever dreamed. This is only by my observation, as being a man, I can only understand it this way.

Female masturbation has been frowned on and denied. In many sexual surveys, 80%+ men admit to masturbation and only 20% or so women admit to it. I do not believe this to be the case in liberal countries at least. Men masturbate to fantasize, to release and many men can come in a very short time. Others have learned to extend the period. But women will use masturbation to reach a level of excitement that they are in control of, touching themselves on the canvas where they paint wonderfully delicious sexual feelings.

But for some, there seems to be a missing ingredient: the embrace of another body, the sight of a man, the security of that embrace and into the bargain, concentrating on mechanical actions.

So what has happened in our society? Women have been told to deny these 'feelings'; that masturbation is 'dirty'; that demanded anything other than the terms offered by men is offensive. To the degree that the Womens Liberation movement sees men as the enemy.

But it could be so different. If we changed the paradigm and belief structures. If we men treated women for what they are, namely, beings that because of their 'wiring' can reach enlightenment by channeling their sexual energy. And it is something that men should be happy to do. To literally 'make' love. To help women find their way to the super-conscious by taking the time to learn how to get women to that level.

And no, it is nothing to do with the length or thickness of your penis.

It is all to do with allowing your partner to become relaxed and secure to create the conditions for the journey. It is about Tantric massage to cultivate the sexual energy, both in you and in her. It is about understanding the nature of the woman's path to satisfaction which is so different from your own.

It is about slowly building up the excitement, like taking the embers of a fire that has almost gone out and transforming it to a blazing fire. It is reading your partners face and utterences, moving forward when she is ready. It is about eye contact, softly-spoken words and embrace.

If you as a man concentrate on helping your partner to reach a higher level, your own experience will be enhanced.

A woman thus loved is transformed. She is 'knowing' and will appreciate you. But this is not about your ego. She is not your slave. You do not own her. You have done what you were put on Earth to do: Assist a women to a higher plane.

Alas, there are very few 'knowledgable' women around. Those that are, understandably keep it to themselves. Others, understandibly, have lesbian relationships where at  least their partner understands what is required.

What a sorry state of affairs. All those women just existing when they could be discovering the meaning of life. All those men, stigmatized by cultures that says they are superior to women, using women as a convenient place to ejaculate their sperm whenever they had the urge. Young girls, who think that sexual gratification is getting a 'bonk', thus fully coming down to the level of men, totally encouraged by media.


So let me reiterate:

1. Women have not been 'allowed' to explore their sexuality
2. Men have not been taught how to make love to women.
3. Women should be helped by love-making to reach a higher spiritual level
4. The role of men is to help women achieve the above.
5. We have to change many concepts in our world and empower humans to live.

Have you an open mind?

What is an open mind? It is the ability to look beyond the mundane, the safe, the 'rules' and try to understand the deeper or alternative meanings. Unfortunately, each culture has a way of putting 'blinkers' on successive generations, only allowing thought in a very narrow direction. This 'thought control' swings between the liberal. or enlightened and the conservative or prohibitive.

Organized religion plays a part too; due to the paternalistic nature of some of the world's religions, women are suppressed, sometimes in very subtle ways, to the degree that women themselves do not realize how suppressed they are. Whenever these men in their respective religions are threatened, they turn up the zealous heat, and intimate that women are evil. Especially if women show any tendency towards establishing and displaying their sexuality.

This is clearly because the men feel threatened. But why? Why are men so inadequate that the thought of a woman seeking or even demanding sexual satisfaction is dangerous, or somehow the work of the Devil?

Cultures resort to bestial practices to keep female sexuality down, such as female circumcision. It was not so long ago that the best doctors in Europe performed clitorectomies on women who displayed sexual feelings. We only have to go back 150 years.

Getting to the point, my experience tells me that women have the physiology to experience a higher level of conciousness, call it superconciousness, if they
experience their sexuality in the form of reaching orgasm.

You know, if you are a woman, that this is possible to a large degree by yourself, if you have the right circumstances and you are not riddled with guilt.

However, their can be a missing ingredient - a feeling that to get to that higher level, the presence of a warm, embracing body, someone to give you the safe environment you need.

Unfortunately, in most cases, this is someone (a man), who is only interested in one thing - his own sexual gratification.